I’ve been circling around this latest concept I’ve stumbled across like I imagine an awestruck fan would do to take in Michelangelo’s Pietà at the Vatican.  My head keeps going, “Wow…wow…wow.”  My heart is drowning in the swelling sound of some Gregorian chant or something.  OOOH!

The idea that each human being’s ability to make choices can absolutely affect and shape both the forms their own lives take as well as the world in which they live is a mind-boggle of the highest order to me.

The only problem is that, at the same time, I am also getting the same feeling I used to get when I opened my uncle’s fishing tackle box and found yet another tangle of fishing line from the last time somebody or other used the thing.  ACK!

“Tangled fishing line” by Aristocrats-hat via Flickr [CC BY 2.0]
The one thing I learned from these forays into the tackle box was that the fishing sure got easier if you took the time to untangle that messy clump of fishing line.  (It works even better if you put things away properly so you don’t have to face the mess you left behind the next time the fish are running, but that is another story.)

It does amaze me that we humans take this singular super-power of ours so much for granted.  It is even more astonishing that most of the Shapers in the world (who are actually all of us) often march around routinely denying that we even have this power in us.


Every one of our actions can do a number on this world of ours – even something as innocuous as planting flowers.

“Orchids and Hala” by Netta Kanoho via Flickr [CC BY-SA 2.0]
Yet, for the most part, as we were growing up, the Bigs around us tended to spend a lot of their time reining in all the baby world-makers and world-breakers.

We Littles were endlessly given some version of the Spider Man mantra: “With great power comes great responsibility, you boob!”

We probably heard some version of that every time we messed up by doing something that either went against the Laws of Nature or missed the mark of the Sweet Spot of Same-Old towards which we were, all of us, supposed to aim.

Somehow, the majority of us did not get the part about what the great super-power we were supposed to be holding was.


I noticed a while back that tucked into each of the Hawaiian teaching stories is the unspoken assumption that we humans are all cousins somehow and that we are all descended from gods.

“Sunspot Sky” (JULY 7, 2009 Extravaganza – Prediction = True) by Pilottage via Flickr [CC BY-NC-ND 2.0]
I do so like that one better than the other one about being some power-being’s pet, pawn, or minion.

Of course, it could be that’s just me being delusional.  Whatever.  (I like my delusion way better than that other thing, guys!)

“Disturbed Zephyr” by Jan via Flickr [CC BY-SA 2.0]


Let’s suppose for a minute (or ten) that it’s a truth that each of us humans carry within us the ability to shape ourselves and to shape the world

Let us also suppose that this ability to shape stuff arises from the perfectly learnable skills that surround the making of decisions and choices that align with and are congruent to our own natures.

We can think of it as the spark of the Creative that we carry into this world we are making together.  We might even think of it as the gift that Life has given us to carry with us into this learning place that is the world.

“High Trestle Trail Bridge Artwork” by Jason Mrachina via Flickr [CC BY-NC-ND 2.0]
If we look around at all of the astounding things we human beings have accomplished and made (as well as the great disasters we have often precipitated), it seems like it could be a really plausible possibility that we humans do shape the world.

How else can you explain that our species — one that lacks major physical prowess (compared to, say, lions and tigers, bears and sharks) — is actually at the top of the food chain here?  All those gnarly predators are our prey.  Wo!


On the slopes of Mount Parnassas in Greece, the remnants and ruins of an ancient temple to Apollo, the Greek god of music, harmony, light, healing, and oracles still stand.

“The temple of Apollo (the centre of the Delphi oracle and Pythia) dated to the 4th century BC” by Helen Simonsson via Wikimedia Commons [CC BY-SA 3.0]
It is said that the temple probably started out as a hut made of laurel branches located over a volcanic vent that probably was the source of some sort of hallucinogenic gas or something that triggered visions in the person breathing in the fumes.  (That’s one theory, at least.)

Over the centuries, there were at least five recorded iterations of the structures on the temple site.  Eventually the temple housed the ancient Mediterranean world’s most-consulted oracle.  These buildings kept getting destroyed by assorted conquering armies and by natural disasters over the centuries.

The last one, the Pausanias “modern temple” was made of limestone and was built in 330 BCE.  That one survived until AD 390 and was destroyed (along with a lot of “pagan” statuary and artwork and other wonders) by the Roman emperor Theodosius I in the name of Christianity.

“Temple of Apollo at Delphi” (by Albert Tournaier 1894) via Wikimedia Commons [CC0 – Public Domain]
The temple was probably targeted because it was world-famous as the home of a seer, the Pythia (an old woman in a long line of old women) who, it was said, channeled the wisdom of the god Apollo.

Delphi got to be a powerful city-state in the ancient world because of the fame of their oracle, who had a really long waiting list as well as a team of devotees to take care of the place and priests who charged her customers a heck of a lot for her services.

Like modern-day oracles (economists, political analysts, and other such forecasters) the Pythia’s answers to the questions of the day were often obscure riddles that left everybody scratching their heads.  (That one reaction hasn’t changed much with our own modern oracles either.  They, too, also charged a heck of a lot for their prognostications.)


Inscribed on the columns that stood on a porch outside the temple’s inner chambers were as many as 147 wise sayings or proverbs that were variously attributed to assorted popular traditional sages.

The three main ones are usually listed as follows:

  1. Know thyself.
  2. Nothing in excess
  3. Surety brings ruin.

Notice that the one that’s come down to us as the most important in all this collected wisdom of the ancients is “Know thyself.”  If you don’t know yourself, none of the other aphorisms works as well, it seems.

And maybe that’s another clue.  You have to put in the work of getting to really know yourself in order to figure out what you’re going to do with all of that potential power you’re carrying around.


This engaging 2017 YouTube video was created by UPROXX Studio and features surfboard shaper Tyler Warren who is very much aware of and honors his own super-power of shaping.


Here’s a poem:


Another conundrum,

A paradox and puzzlement

That dogs my heels like

Some mangy, lost, lonesome pup:

The “waiting-for-my-savior-to-come,”

(A stance encouraged by a world

Apparently determined to transform

And morph persons Into

Clingy, wet sops,

All tears and self-sorrow)

Is alive and well.


“I can’t…

“I cannot do this.

“Oh, help me, help me,

Help, help, help.

“Sure, SOMEBODY has to do it,

But that’s not me, no, not me,


“Well, I can’t,

“And I won’t,

“So YOU have to.”



Lemme get this one straight.


I do mine.

I take the blows that come

When I inevitably misstep or

Some other dumbness happens.

I carry my own load.

(Okay, sometimes I grumble….

But, hey, I’m still carrying it)

And I make my way.

The gait gets gimpy sometimes,

And there are harrowing moments,

But I go along.


You stand there telling me now

That I have to carry you too?

When did I get elected the hero of your story?

Did I miss the nomination?

Can I decline the honor?

Gee, wow!


See, I’m the hero of my own story.

I decided that a while back,

When the poo’-thing-me thing

Got to be kinda stupid-looking.

(I do so hate looking stupid.)


So, lemme ask you something:

Did I forget to take the “STUPID” label

Off my forehead or what?

 By Netta Kanoho

Header Photo Credit:  “Friendship is a sheltering tree” by Duane Romanell via Flickr [CC BY-NC-ND 2.0]



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  1. Gaining an empowering mindset is not easy. But by socking all the information there is online, we can start thinking differently. Thank you very much for this post.
    We should all understand our mission. That way, we will not lose direction. And regaining our drive will be much easier than if we’re drifting with the masses.

    1. An interesting perspective, Ann.  Thank you!

      Please do come again.

  2. NicoleSpirals says:

    Your content is refreshing. So full of authenticity and insight.

    I love the idea that we are all collaborating creatively here on Earth and we can choose to create whatever we want. Most of us don’t believe we have that power or shrink at the responsibility of it. And I’ve found myself doing the same from time to time. It takes awareness and bravery for us to, as individuals, overcome our own fears and shame so that we can actually create change. To accept that we co-create this world together. 

    I love the poem at the end. It really drives home the point that while we can turn to each other for support, we are each responsible for our own load. And I think that’s empowering! Thanks for the article. I’ll be back!

    1. YAY!  She’ll be back!  Thanks for the visit and for sharing your thoughts, Nicole.  I’m pleased the post proved helpful to you.

  3. You hit the nail on the head with this article! You are so right that the biggest ability we all individually have to change our lives and those around us is one we vehemently deny having.

    We all have the unique ability to have an affect and large impact on multiple lives with just one decision, yet we make said decisions in just haste and with willful disregard to the ramifications that decision might have and could be continuing to have this very moment. 

    1. That’s a truth, Daniel.  I do agree.

      Please do come again….

  4. LineCowley says:

    Life is forever evolving, and we all play a major part in it. We might not think we play a part, or can change things, but we certainly have the ability to make a difference. It is just whether we choose to or not. Maintain your direction and mindset, and you can empower many to make a difference.

    I love your poem at the end and the thing that resonates the most with me, is that I hate feeling stupid, or even worse, being made to look stupid. 

    1. Thanks for the visit and for sharing your thoughts, LineCowley.  It’s good to see ya!

      Please do come again.

  5. I really enjoyed this article Netta, I appreciate the artistic tone of the narrative and I’m certain it will be inspiring to others as well!

    The story of your uncle’s fishing box being full of tangled fishing line is a perfect parallel to the mess that many of us find in our lives. You make a terrific point about the best option being to put the line back in the proper condition to begin with but most of us are in too big a hurry to even straighten out the line let alone put it back as we should.

    Knowing one’s self is an important step to mature but I think motivation is equally necessary.

    1. Joseph, thanks for the visit and for sharing your thoughts.  I do appreciate it.

      Myself, I think that for people who run on curiosity, delving into self-awareness actually generates the motivation to keep on going. 

      (You’ve just gotta test the theories you make up about your own self, after all.  What better way than to go adventuring and exploring stuff?)

      Please do come again.

  6. One experience I have had with my own personal growth journey is that it can be challenging to stay motivated and committed to change over the long term, especially when faced with setbacks or obstacles.

    Your article provides a valuable resource for anyone looking to improve their self-awareness and cultivate a growth mindset, as well as how to develop the habits and practices necessary for sustained progress.

    1. I’m pleased the post was helpful to you, Ronnie.  Thanks for the visit and for sharing your thoughts.

      Please do come again.

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