Another IPS (Inner Peace Symptom):  an understanding that transcendence has nothing to do with escaping the world or your own self.  [All it means is stepping out and dancing your own heart-dance right out in the open, in the middle of the world and in the middle of yourself.]

“Listening to your heart” often seems like a scary thing.  Your heart keeps insisting that you just have to do things that are counter-intuitive and not-the-thing — the very opposite of what everybody around you says is the Smart Thing To Do.

Your heart often keeps urging you to make these moves that make no rational sense, insisting and insisting that the very thing you are trying to ignore or avoid or resist has to be embraced.

Your heartsong, it turns out, is also what holds you together when your life turns to dreck and you have been knocked down to the floor again by some other Life-thing.  Not only does it help you get back up, it can even help you keep your feet under you the next time you get a 2×4 upside the head.

This seems to me to be a very good thing to explore when you’re searching for meaning and mana for your ordinary life.


In this YouTube video of a TEDxRockCreekPark talk, “The Power of Resilience,” neuro-psychologist Sam Goldstein tells a story about his work with children and touches on some of the things that his patients have taught him.  His early work with children led him to focus on studying resilience in humans, his life-work.

Resilience researchers ask why some people handle adversity better than others and go on to lead normal lives despite negative life experiences while others get de-railed by them.  Goldstein is a Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at the University of Utah, a Research Professor of Psychology at George Mason University and the director of the Neurology, Learning and Behavior Center in Salt Lake City in Utah.  He’s written many books and articles on the subject.

Goldstein’s own work has led him to understand that it is the ordinary, heartful actions of everyday people that fosters and instill in childen the strength, hope and optimism they need to face the world.  It is, as he calls it, an “ordinary magic.”

He also points out that our heart is connected to our brain in more ways than any other organ in our body.  It affects us physically and mentally as well.   He encourages us to listen more to our hearts.

In this YouTube video published by the HeartMath Institute, “The Importance of Resilience” further explains the real effects of the heart-mind connection, applying it to the business world.

HeartMath Institute is a nonprofit research and educational organization founded in the 1980’s by Doc Childre, an internationally known authority on optimizing personal effectiveness.  He believes that the “intelligence of the heart” can be harnessed and originated a system of “heart-based tools and technologies” that has been used widely in business, the military, hospitals, clinic and schools to enhance health, performance and well-being.

Another scientist (one who’s turned mystic) is Gregg Braden.  He spends his time exploring ancient wisdoms from a scientific perspective, sharing what he has discovered on his journeys and his thoughts on these discoveries.

This next YouTube video, published by philosophical freeborder in 2015, features Braden talking about how the emotions of the human heart can apparently affect the electromagnetic field of the earth in a GAIAM TV interview.

The thinking’s “out there.”  It’s also fascinating.

Braden’s book, RESILIENCE FROM THE HEART:  The Power to Thrive in Life’s Extremes, is also worth checking out.


From the ancient wise guys to modern-day big brains, the advice remains the same:  Listen to your heart.  That’s where the magic is.

Here’s a poem:


I am learning:

The wiseguys are right.

It really does NOT matter

What happens to me.

The only thing important

Is my response.


Building up and tearing down,

I wade through the stream of Time

And dance in the Creative

As I work on caring for

What is essential to me on

This journey I am making.


Caring for the essences of my existence

Keeps me hopping,

But on the stage

The dancer leaps with abandon,

Throwing out her heart

And following after it as

The beauty of the dance

Continues to grow.

by Netta Kanoho

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12 thoughts on “ORDINARY MAGIC

  1. This post is very interesting. I do believe that humans have a type of intuition that keeps them from making bad decisions and helps them to walk the right path. However, I do not believe that the heart itself has emotions. Yes we have very strong emotions that help guide us. Yes, human beings have emotions, intuition, and resilience. I believe that they come from our soul, not our heart. But very interesting and it really makes you think…. Well done!!!!!!!!! I really liked it!!!!!!!

    1. Hey VHayes2:

      Thank you for your visit and for your thoughts. I do appreciate them. Please come again….

  2. It’s so strange how it works, it the moment of a big decision it feels like the worst thing to do! Head is like: BAAD IDEA! But the heart says: ye go for it! Somehow it always worked out when I listened to my heart and I ended up learning a new thing or becoming a bit better as a human being. I love tedx videos so much!

    1. Hey Angie: Thank you for the video and for sharing your thoughts. Please do come again….

  3. Man, I really spent a lot of time on this site, watching the videos and watching more – I let time slip away as I watched Greg Braden’s stuff.

    Amazing stuff and especially as someone who is involved in personal development and fitness, truly eye-opening and interesting, not to mention, super exciting to find all this stuff out!

    Thanks for sharing!

    1. Hey Michael:

      Thanks for the visit and for exploring my site and being enthusiastically supportive.  I do appreciate it. 

      Please do come again.

  4. Sujandar Mahesan says:

    It is lovely. I really like your website. It has lots of good poems with tons of meanings to it. This one especially talks about the things which hapoens to all human. How the heart says something and the head says something else. Well done I really liked it! Thank you so much for writing this article.

    1. Welcome back, Sujander.  Thanks again for sharing your thoughts.  

      Please do come again!

  5. Heart is powerful. There’s no denying there. Just like you said, from ancient wisdom to modern science, we learn and confirm the power of our heart. But we are not taking about the physical heart. We are talking about our emotions and intuitions. This is always a hard debate for me since I do value logical thinking a lot but if that doesn’t make us happy, then what’s the point.

    Thanks for the inspiring post and the poem.

    1. Thanks for your visit and for sharing your thoughts, Wei.  It truly is one of the hardest puzzles we humans face.  Logical thinking is valuable but it’s the heart that leads us to happy.  

      Please do come again….

  6. I loved this article and the super interesting videos, thank you very much for sharing them. I must say that I was always a person with fear to do what I really want, but that fear disappeared some time ago and now in every desicion or new challenge of my life, I always focus on following my heart, because it is true that the heart is always right! And also what a beautiful poem.

    1. Good for you, Paola.  Thank you for the visit and for sharing your thoughts.  Please do come again….

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