REVIEW: DO YOU TALK FUNNY?
PRODUCT (Book): DO YOU TALK FUNNY?: 7 Comedy Habits To Become a Better (And Funnier) Public Speaker
Author: David Nihill
Published by: BenBella Books, Inc. [2016]
David Nihill’s number-one fear used to be public speaking. It’s not an uncommon fear, but it was one inner demon Nihill felt compelled to knock flat.
Unlike most business people Nihill did not join Toastmasters or any other group focused on helping business people develop the confidence they needed to speak before an audience. Nihill chose, instead, to take to the stage as a stand-up comedian for a year.
During his trial year as “the comedian called Irish Dave” (as well as other stage persona), he crashed comedy clubs, festivals and assorted shows. He stood up on stage and yucked it up with the crowds. Irish Dave hung out with some of the finest up-and-coming funny people in the business and he learned from them.
In between the performances he studied the old masters and watched new ones plying their trade. From them he learned about constructing stories and finding the funny in them. He studied delivery and timing and pacing and about how to control an audience.
He learned all of this from working performers who were mastering their craft in the traditional, time-honored way – by just doing it.
This You-Tube video, which was published in October, 2016 by FunnyBizz Conference and features Nihill discussing “How to Become a Better and Funnier Speaker.” It was part of a workshop developed by CreativeLive.
THE BACK STORY
Before embarking on this adventure, Nihill had worked as a consultant for start-ups. He was between jobs, having just left a well-paying corporate one, and he was unsure about his next move.
The impetus for climbing onstage despite his self-confessed crippling fear of public speaking was fueled by a desire to help his friend Arash Bayatmakou who had sustained a severe spinal cord injury.
It was Nihill’s idea to organize a comedy show and recruit comedians to raise funds for his friend’s continued physical therapy. The show came together handily with the help of a neighbor who happened to be a professional comedian. However, Arash (unaware of Nihill’s personal demon) asked that David host that show.
Nihill had to try. He had to learn to confidently stand up there onstage. Fast. Compared to the reality his friend was facing, he thought, Nihill’s demon was really a very small thing. But, the standard methods of learning how to speak well before a crowd looked like a quick route to seppuku.
Another friend, hearing about David’s predicament, got him a 20-minute gig in a paid show. Nihill went for it. He did not do too badly, he thought. He even kind of liked it. After that fairly easy baptism of fire, he was even able to pull off emceeing the fundraiser for Arash.
THE QUEST FOR FUNNY
Nihill, at loose ends anyway, decided to keep the exploration of comedic method going for a year. He approached the whole proceeding as a research project, mostly because he did not want to explain to friends and family that he was postponing a more serious job search in order to go tell jokes.
Nihill’s goal was to figure out how to use comedic techniques to transform his (and every other business person’s) public speaking, and to “make the world a lot more entertaining for everybody.”
Besides performing onstage all across Northern California at many of the top comedy clubs as an “accomplished comedian,” he interviewed, observed and read about several thousand comedians, performers and public speaking experts. He tracked down every book and quote and guru he could find.
He collected their thoughts and tips. He broke down the techniques and did a Tim Ferris on them, deconstructing each skill he wanted to master into its most basic components. He applied and tried them out during his own performances. He improved.
Along the way he also began to figure out the most effective ways to gussy up all those yawn-inducing Powerpoint presentations and business conference talks that hit the snooze buttons of every person who ever had to attend those interminable meetings and gatherings.
Nihill’s guiding principle was one discovered by biologist John Medina. In his best-selling book BRAIN RULES, Medina says, “The brain doesn’t pay attention to boring things.” Nihill was determined to figure out how to help turn informational talks into “info-tainment.”
By the end of his year of performing, Irish Dave and his alter egos had garnered accolades and assorted wins at various competitions. David Nihill was an accomplished public speaker by then.
FUNNY BIZZ
In the course of things, Nihill put together Funny Bizz, an online support group that grew into a community, a conference series and a writer platform that helps business content creators tap into the power of storytelling, comedy and improve to create better content.
The Comedy For A Spinal Cause fundraiser that kicked him onto the stage went so well it became an ongoing quarterly event that brings top comedians together with local communities to raise funds and awareness to help people who are recovering from spinal cord injury.
Nihill also helped his friend Arash become a powerful speaker in his own right.
Oh yeah…and he wrote this book….
FINAL THOUGHTS
I do recommend this lively, well-thought-out, and use-able book for anyone who needs help sparkling up their monologues or their content writing. The “Tipliography” collection of 80 tips and hacks from the book and from the comedians Nihill interviewed is worth the price of the book.
My favorite book-jacket review of this book comes from Marita Nihill, the author’s mother: “This book is great. I haven’t read it yet, but David drew a picture when he was six years old of a penguin drinking beer in a Chinese restaurant and it was clear the potential for slight wisdom and misguided creativity was there.”
BUMBLEBEE
It’s a funny thing, the bumblebee.
Everybody says it’s not
Supposed to be able to fly:
It’s too fat and round,
Its wings too fragile,
It’s aerodynamically incorrect
Or something like that….
But, because the bumblebee doesn’t read
Those scientific journals, and it doesn’t
Know it’s not supposed to be taking off
And cruising around above ground,
It just opens up wings and flies.
It never talks about its hopes and dreams,
It just hums along doing them,
And the scientists, realists all, still
Say it shouldn’t be able to fly,
And, anyway, it is not flying right.
These same guys will come after you too.
There will always be the realists,
The ones who can give you all the reasons
Why some thing can’t work, and why you –
Especially you – can’t do it:
You’re too unqualified and you don’t know how,
Your head is in the clouds,
Your feet don’t touch the ground,
And anyhow it’s not politically or
Ideologically or something-cally correct.
Be a bumblebee, my friend.
Don’t talk your dreams, just do it,
And when you’ve taken off and flown away,
These wise guys will shake their heads
And tell each other you shouldn’t be able to,
And they’ll tell each other that,
Anyhow, you’re not doing it the right way.
By Netta Kanoho
Picture credit: (book) via Amazon
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