I’ve got some news for you:  Just because you are “eccentric” (weird, quirky, odd, freakish, peculiar, unorthodox, unconventional, different…whatever you want to call that thing you do), it does NOT necessarily mean you are a Creative.  It does not indicate that you are Innovative and/or a Genius.

Got some other news for you:  It’s all good anyhow.

Maybe your apartment looks like a shrine to succulents or a stage for all those performer plants from Orchid-land Central.

Maybe you’re into search-and-rescue or treasure-hunting or trash bin diving.

Maybe you’ve got a major zebra finch collection or a flock of roller pigeons on your roof.

Maybe you like wearing outré or retro clothes or playing at being a cartoon or movie character.

Maybe you’re the lead singer in a rock and roll band or you play the cello as a side-gig.

Maybe you want to stump around and grouse at people during the election season and climb up on soapboxes and declaim something or other as an orator or spoken-word poet or storyteller.

Maybe you build little robots or rocket ships in the garage or mix up potions or bake doggy-biscuits in the kitchen.

Maybe you’re training for a walking tour around the world or practicing forest-bathing.

Maybe you’re a plein air painter or a macro/micro photographer who chooses oddball locations to do your discipline.

Whatever.  It’s your life and, as long as you’re more-or-less street-legal and not hurting anybody else and you enjoy it, that’s cool.

If you want to add color and beauty, whimsy and joy, adventure and magic, or good-hearted service and help of some sort or other to the world we are making together…well, why not?

Boring is so meh!  Do something else.  Go play.  Do it your way.

The following video, “A Different Drummer: Celebrating Eccentrics” is a trailer for an eclectic world-trotting documentary film by Academy Award-winning director John Zaritsky.  It was published in 2014 by Celebrating Eccentrics.

The film itself is based on the findings of a Scotland-based psychotherapist David Weeks who claimed that eccentrics live longer and are happier and healthier than the conformists of the world.


Just don’t delude yourself and buy into that hackneyed cliché that says eccentricity and weird is a pre-requisite for being Creative and a Maker.  Just because you decide to take your pet lobster for a walk down the street on a silk leash does not make you Oscar Wilde.

“Lobster” by Maja Manner via Flickr [CC BY-NC 2.0]
I’ve been stumbling through a stack of posts and musings by assorted people who were apparently influenced by various sociological and psychological studies and such conducted by behavioral and neurological researchers.  The guys and gals in white lab coats have found links between minor madness and creativity, they say.

From these findings, the opinion-mongers and life coach pros made the leap to the notion that behaving like an Outsider or Different or More You helps you unlock your creativity and lets your genius shine so that you can “make a difference” in the world.

“Me, Myself and I” by Shena Tschofen via Flickr [CC BY-NC-ND 2.0]

A strange wardrobe, histrionics, and unusual pastimes probably will make you memorable.  You’ll stand out in a crowd, f’r sure, even with social distancing.

Probably, though, you won’t have a huge impact on the world as we know it all by yourself — unless, of course, you really are a slightly deranged creative genius who is either

  • independently wealthy,
  • employed by some corporation bent on exploiting your talents and skills, or
  • supported in your endeavors by a tribe of crowd-funding sponsors or fans.


Just on general principle, I do have a fondness for freak-flag flying.  It can add a whole other dimension to your life and it can be fun.

The phrase itself was first heard in a song written by guitar god Jimi Hendrix and recorded in 1967.  In his song, “If 6 was 9,” Hendrix declares, “I’m gonna wave my freak flag high.”

Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young took up the cry when they recorded their counterculture anthem, “Almost Cut My Hair,” in 1970 and the phrase, “I feel like letting my freak flag fly” caught on.

In 2008, Shrek The Musical, a play that included composer Jeanine Tesori’s song “Freak Flag,” opened on Broadway after a trial run in Seattle.

And then there’s this bit of loveliness from the Oregon alternative rock quartet Fortune’s Folly which is made up of vocalist Calysta Cheyenne, guitarist Ira Mazie, bassist Jesse Sanchez and drummer Alex Koleber.

The following 2019 YouTube video, “Freak Flag (acoustic),” features Cheyenne and Mazie performing at Track Town Studios in Eugene, Oregon.


All that said, there is a book, published in 2017 (and unpacked and expanded upon by a diverse array of YouTube videos), that has me bedazzled by visions of possibility:  Nilofa Merchant’s THE POWER OF ONLYNESS:  Make Your Wild Ideas Mighty Enough To Dent the World.

Merchant is a former tech executive connected to Apple and Autodesk.  During her 20-plus-year career as an executive and then in her own consultancy business she earned an “impeccable reputation” for her ability to guide both Fortune 500 companies and start-up organizations through difficult situations.

She has personally launched more than a hundred products, netting $18 billion in sales.

An apparently indefatigable speaker, she has been tapped as a TED mainstage speaker and even helped to put together speaking events at the 2019 Meaning Conference, an annual gathering of people held in Brighton, UK, who believe business can and must be a force for positive change.

Merchant’s talks and interviews on YouTube all center around the topics of innovation, social change, leadership, collaboration, and the dynamics of power.  A recipient of the “Future Thinker Award,” she has been ranked as one of the world’s top 50 management thinkers by the Thinkers 50 organization.

The lady is good.

One YouTube video features Merchant being interviewed about the book by Tracey Fitzpatrick.  It is one of a series of videos about that interview which was put up in 2018 by Russell Sarder at Sarder TV.  Like all of the other videos in the series, it makes little explosions in your head as the ideas strike home.

Merchant answers the question, “How can ordinary people make an impact?”  with a story about her husband.

Sarder TV is an independent educational media company that’s part of NetCom Learning, a global organization offering managed learning services, IT and business training and talent development.

NetCom CEO Russell Sarder and his team put together Sarder TV in 2012.  It provides exclusive interviews with authors, leaders and taste-makers that focus on subject to inspire business executives and leadership teams.

In this next video, “INBOUND 20 Bold Talks Spotlight,” Merchant explains the basic elements of her mind-construct and how it all comes together.

One of the major constellation of thoughts in this talk about “connecting by meaning” intentionally in this Social Age of ours, was Merchant’s aphorisms about the progression of how the whole thing works.  She tells us,




Inbound.com is an interactive online HubSpot community of entrepreneurs and geeky sorts who explore better ways and means for doing business in the 21st century through various social media platforms.  The staff maintain a year-round blog and put together a digital conference very year with fascinating thinkers and interesting topics.

2020 was supposed to be the year when they went from disseminating digital content to going analog/physical where attendees would actually be meeting face-to-face.  Then the Corvid-19 pandemic happened.

For more of Nilofer Merchant’s thoughts, you might like to click the button below and watch her talk, “Onlyness in Action” which happened during the 2019 Meaning Conference.



This book is a keeper, guys….

Here’s a poem:


I’m standing here all raw,

My heart exposed and bleeding.

All my nerve endings are jumping, you know.

And I think I lost my stomach somewhere.


My eyes are welling up

With tears that help me see

This whatever-it-is in

All its refracted brilliance.


I am standing here shattered

By a strange sorrow and a love

I can hardly keep contained

Inside this one small frame of a self.


This dream we call “World” is so beautiful, you know,

So wild and churning with possibility,

Rolled into one huge, glorious package,

A numinous gift that feeds you, that feeds on you.


I am standing here just waiting,

Knowing that all I am –

My weaknesses, my strengths —

Is real and true and good.


And even though I’m shaking worse than a sick puppy,

I stand in the knowledge that what I am is mine and

At least it is sufficient for

Whatever happens next.


When I was young and stupid I made a resolution

To live my life in good faith

And this is what that path

Has brought me to.


I am standing here, severely overwhelmed,

Hanging in there, watching

As the sun breaks through the morning clouds.

Oh, my!


This is supposed to be brave?

Then why does it feel so good?

By Netta Kanoho

Header photo credit:  “What are you doing?” by Light Charmer via Flickr [CC BY-NC-ND 2.0]



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12 thoughts on “LET YOUR FREAK FLAG FLY

  1. Apersinger says:

    I have always said that “It takes all kinds of folks to make the world go round”. Your post is a testament to that. How boring life would be if we all fit in the same cookie cutter. I say let your “Freak Flag Fly” as long as you are not hurting anyone or anything.

    The interview with Merchant and her story about her husband and his inspirational success was awesome. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and your intriguing poem at the end.

    1. Apersinger, thanks for the visit and for sharing your thoughts.  I do appreciate it.

      I agree that “fitting into the same cookie cutter”is a less-than-proper life goal.  Diversity is so much more fun!

      Please do come again….

  2. Lizzy Stabel says:

    If a poem would be written about me and my life, I could honestly say that it would be quite boring actually (haha), apart from this one little thing that I am obsessed about and that is the continent of Africa…well, actually not THAT little. I guess that you could say that is my little freak flag and that I have to definitely let it fly more often. Once I get the balls again to go:-) 

    Thanks for this cheerful blog post!

    1. Lizzy, thanks for your visit and for sharing your thoughts.  How cool!  A continent-obsession is a proper-sized thing, I say!

      I’m glad you enjoyed the post.  Please do come again….

  3. LineCowley says:

    Oh wow, what a fun read Let your Freak Flag Fly, was, and it certainly put a smile on my face. You definitely can not put a square peg in a hole, just as it take all kinds to make the world go round.

    I am not familiar with Nilofer Merchant or the interactive online HubSpot community, but will make sure to check them out

    1. Thanks for your visit and for sharing your thoughts, LineCowley.  I am glad you enjoyed the post and do encourage you to check out Nilofer Merchant and the HubSpot community.  

      Please do come again.

  4. Creativity requires testing and not being afraid of failing. Having a playground or a sandbox is a must. 

    Being weird doesn’t make anybody creative, although the weird person may be more inclined to try strange things. There still needs to be certain usefulness so the idea may be labeled as creative.

    1. Ann, thanks for your visit and for sharing your thoughts.  I do think you may be right, that a certain “usefulness” might be an integral part of the “creative” label.  

      Please do come again.

  5. Hey Netta!

    I have to say, I’d never thought about the difference between being “unique” and being “artistic,” like how you said walking a lobster doesn’t make you Oscar Wilde. Sure, if walking a lobster is your genius idea, then no problem. But if you walk your lobster just because it’s different. . .well, that seems kind of silly.

    I think we all have a desire to be recognized, hence why we try to be different and stand out. Having something to give us identity is important, but the question is, what do we put our identity in? The trouble is, if we put our identity in something novel, it’s gone as soon as someone steals our idea (dang it! Now my neighbor is walking a lobster around too!).

    This was an interesting post. I do have one question, but I don’t know if it’s outside the scope of the post: what if somebody’s “freak flag” was to NOT fly their “freak flag?” Let’s say that, if they were to “fly their freak flag,” they would just be doing what everyone else is doing and thus not being a freak? It seems like a bit of a paradox. Thanks!


    1. Hee!  Isaac, I love your conundrum.  Perhaps there are folks around who have decided that flying their freak flag IS doing what everybody else is doing.  THAT can get pretty freaky, I say!  I suppose it’s the intent that counts, neh?

      Thanks for the fun!  You make me smile…

      Please do come again.

  6. Demi Foster says:

    This article highlights the value of embracing one’s eccentricity and individuality, making the point that being unconventional doesn’t necessarily equate to being creative or innovative.

    Now, my question would be: In your opinion, what role does embracing one’s eccentricity play in fostering creativity and innovation, and how can individuals leverage their unique qualities to make a real difference in the world?

    1. Thanks for the visit, Demi, and for your questions.  Whew!  Whole libraries have been written about those questions. 

      Some of my favorites include:  FINDING YOUR OWN NORTH STAR:  Claiming the Life You Were Meant to Live by Martha Beck; CREATIVE TRESPASSING:  How to Put the Spark and Joy Back Into Your Work and Life by Tania Katan; and THE POWER OF ONLYNESS:  Make your Wild Ideas Mighty Enough To Dent the World by Nilofer Merchant.

      There are many more, old and new, to explore.  Have fun!

      Please come again.

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